Warning: Good Grades May Harm Student Health

With the beginning of each school year comes an opportunity to wipe the grade slate clean — to ramp up expectations for high academic achievement in our children.

Of course, there is nothing wrong with good grades. That is, unless the stress of getting an “A” causes children to fail at developing the kinds of abilities that matter much more than grades. Even for children who naturally perform well on academic tests, a good grade is only one measurement of success. A few things that school testing cannot measure include:

  • Open-Mindedness
  • Effort
  • Social & Emotional Intelligence
  • Critical thinking
  • Initiative
  • Creativity
  • Collaboration
  • Curiosity
  • Respect
  • Kindness
  • Capacity to love
  • Honesty
  • Compassion

Internal strengths, like those listed above, are far more important to a life of success and well-being than whether a child earns an “A” on an Algebra exam or are accepted to a top-rated university. In fact, many tests only measure a student’s ability to produce a correctly memorized answer.

For today’s learners, correct answers are not enough. And if we swallow the good grades pill in its entirety, students may suffer long-term consequences.

By the time children reach late adolescence, their brains have the capacity to think about interrelationships, to explore the boundaries between fields of study, and to create new ways of learning. These critical abilities, fostered throughout childhood, will fuel tomorrow’s innovative technologies and create important social change.

Despite a strong body of research on the value of internal strengths, we continue to use standardized, quantitative tests to measure kid’s success. Why? Because skills like critical thinking, curiosity, and collaboration are much more difficult to measure numerically across large populations. So we tend to measure what can most easily be measured – reading, math, and science knowledge. We do this, even though we know this type of measurement can cause harm to the health of our children.

There has been a great deal of debate in recent years about the insatiable quest for good grades and test scores. The Search for a New Way to Test School Kids acknowledges the many problems, including those related to meeting the challenges of No Child Left Behind (NCLB). And of course, the Atlanta cheating scandal has reformers on each side of the testing issue pointing fingers at one another. A Teachable Moment from Atlanta’s Cheating Scandal offers salient advice, pointing out that we need to pay attention to the conditions that help students achieve. These conditions, like how children develop initiative, resiliency, and compassion are driving current research in the field of positive youth development.

Whether or not you are a proponent of standardized testing or question the value of grades, there is a fallacy about good grades and test scores that leads many parents to become complacent, particularly when their child is doing well at school. Children succeed in life for many reasons; good grades do not guarantee success.

The article, Thinking About Psychological Literacy, explains important aspects of success that are not measured by grades, like the ability to be self-reflective, action-oriented, and connected to work that improves the lives of others. These skills cannot be measured by numbers, nor are they easily compared through testing from one child to another.

We may be living in an age that is obsessed with numbers, but that doesn’t mean we have to teach our children to measure their self-worth by good grades or test scores alone. In fact, parents, teachers, coaches, and other supportive adults are in a position to nurture psychological literacy and help develop the internal strengths that determine a meaningful life.

When was the last time you helped a child identify and build on his or her character strengths?

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Have your grown children or students succeeded in developing the internal strengths listed above? What do you think contributed most to their success? Please share your comments.

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  • http://www.facebook.com/rackerly1 Rick Ackerly

    This is brilliant! sharp, and hitting the right nerve. You handle your scalpel skillfully, Doctor Price-Mitchell. (I am working on saying it better myself–but I haven’t yet.)

    • http://www.rootsofaction.com Marilyn Price-Mitchell

      Rick,

      Thanks for your kind comment! I’m honored.

  • Mike Bundrant

    Such an excellent point! I have two daughters that are obsessed with getting A’s (and they do!) Helping them develop inner qualities is something I need to be more aware of…

    • http://www.rootsofaction.com Marilyn Price-Mitchell

      Sometimes it is the A students that need the most support to develop those inner qualities! Thanks for stopping by!

  • http://www.thebounceblog.com/ Bobbi Emel

    Thanks for this article, Marilyn. I wish everyone – parents, teachers, and administrators – could read it. I’ll be sure to share!

    • http://www.rootsofaction.com Marilyn Price-Mitchell

      Thanks, Bobbi. Appreciate your support!

  • Priska

    Great article, but it does take parents, teachers and the community, otherwise the chain is broken. As a parent I remember being told ‘you say that because your my mother’.

    • http://www.rootsofaction.com Marilyn Price-Mitchell

      You are correct. It takes parents, schools, and communities to provide this message to children. Unfortunately, we aren’t doing such a good job.

  • Jane Robinson- Art Epicurean

    Great post. Our current education is certainly broken and not effective to teach to teach the basics but also to inspire learning as a lifelong event. Character, integrity, honesty and an open heart are qualities that will always outshine an “A”.

  • Dave Rowley

    I really enjoyed this post Marilyn. Our eldest has just started first grade, so the pressure hasn’t ramped up yet, but we know it’s coming.

    The focus in our family is always going to be on giving our boys the skills to negotiate life using all their abilities–emotional, intellectual, and technical.

    There’s no test or system that can cover that, so it’s up to us to help them negotiate their school years using the system we’re given and providing our own support and guidance.

    • http://www.rootsofaction.com Marilyn Price-Mitchell

      Thanks, Dave, for your comment. It sounds like you have a wonderful philosophy and focus for your boys. It gets harder to stay with that focus as the pressure ramps up but it sounds like you’re on a great path. Best wishes.

  • http://happierhuman.com/ Amit Amin

    The pursuit of the best grades definitely ruined my health :)

    Spread the message!

    The more difficult question, which you raise – which traits & achievement best lead to success.

    The even more difficult question – which definition of success is relevant to me, and for that definition, which traits and achievements should I most help my child acquire

    • http://www.rootsofaction.com Marilyn Price-Mitchell

      Amit,
      Thanks for comments. You raise the most important question of all…how each person defines success for themselves. We need to do a better job of helping children define success!

  • Ciara Conlon

    Hi Marilyn, a very timely article as I sat this evening for 3 hours in my sons school going from teacher to teacher to hear the same report. He’s not working, barely passing some subjects, failing others. I sat in the queues knowing what to expect but wondering what the solution will be. We all know the education systems don’t foster the skills and qualities we want for our children but we are caught up in a system that requires grades and results. My son is in his final year, this year’s exams will decide if he goes to college or not. I have shared with him all my beliefs and values, that his grades don’t define him as a person but I also tell him we are part of a system and he has to start buying into it. Much as I hate it, he needs to study and learn off text and sweat blood and tears to get to the next level in our society. I can’t see any other way?

    • http://www.rootsofaction.com Marilyn Price-Mitchell

      Ciara,

      Unfortunately, your son’ story is all too common. He’s most likely been burned out by the system, yet it is the system we have and if he wants to succeed he has to play along. That’s a hard thing to do when you aren’t motivated. We need to create a better system where our children can succeed on their own terms. Thanks for sharing. — Marilyn